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Chunking Goals

Hugh Norley - Thursday, December 23, 2010

Now that you have set your goals for the new year, it's time to think about how you are going to make them happen. 

Just writing them down isn't enough.  You have to take action.  This is how I help my clients reach their goals, year after year.  We look at the end picture and then break it down into steps. 

For instance… if you want to get into your size 8 jeans, and you are in a size 12, then what do you have to do to get there?

Exercise, eat right, take the right supplements and have a great mindset.  The problem is just saying that doesn't make it happen either, you actually have to do these things. 

Right now, most people are slacking off on all the above as Christmas rolls around and we party and spend time with family and friends.  That's ok.  Enjoy it!  That's what life is about.  Just be smart and reasonable with yourself.  Every pound you put on, you will have to work off in the new year. 

When 2011 comes around, you may say… ok now it's time to get my body into the most amazing shape ever.  For many people, all they will ever do is think about it.  Are you one of those people?  Or are you someone who is going to get up and take action? 

If you are an action taker, then clearly write into your schedule when you are going to work out.  Treat it as if it's a meeting with an important client, boss, etc.  You wouldn't miss those meetings, so don't miss the ones with yourself. 

Another tip… pull out paper and pen and write down what you are going to have for breakfast, lunch and dinner.  Then go to the shops and buy only that.  Plan your eating and stick to it. 

Whether it's fat loss or any other goal, look at what you have to do and break it down into small, manageable chunks.  This way you don't get overwhelmed with the whole picture, you only have to think about the step that you have to take that's right in front of you.

This process can be easy or it can be tricky.  I know for myself that even though I can do this easily for other people and their goals, I can struggle with my own.  That's when my coaches come in handy.  They help me break down my goals and take the necessary steps to achieve them, while holding me accountable. 

If you are struggling with this process, please feel free to contact us for coaching. If your goals are not clear than you will not have a clear path to achieve them. 

With our coaching special at the moment, we are practically giving away the coaching because we want to see you achieve your goals this year. SALES OFF HERE.  Go now to check out this coaching offer. 

To your dreams coming true…


All the best,

Hugh Norley

 

PS- Thank you for the incredible response we have had for the special coaching offer.  We only have a few spaces left, so email admin@targetedfatloss.com.au to book in your time or call me on 0402 205 851

Commitment For An Ideal Body

Hugh Norley - Monday, March 02, 2009

Are You 100% Committed to Achieving Your Ideal Body?  

If so, this may be the most important article you ever read…

I woke up one day a couple of years ago absolutely committed to losing the extra weight I had gained.  I was just barely squeezing into my size 12 pants and was not happy.  I looked at my partner and said, “That’s it, I’m ready.  It’s time to lose this weight!”  

As a personal trainer, he was happy to help me, but there were a few conditions he attached to the help.  In all my gung-ho excitement, I heard the word “conditions” and sank.  Huh…

He challenged me.  I told him that I wanted to drop down to a size 10.  That wasn’t good enough for him.  He said, “Come on Keri, challenge yourself!  You know you can do that, why not go to a size 8?”  

All the stuff came up in my head and all the excuses… “No way!  I couldn’t do that.  I don’t even know what a size 8 looks like.  I don’t know the last time I was there.”

He gave me that face the personal trainers and partners make, telling me that there wasn’t really a choice in the matter.  Why not go somewhere I hadn’t gone before?  Why not challenge myself to play full out?  

So, I questioned him, “Do you REALLY BELIEVE that I can do that?”  

“Of course you can!” he said.

It was that quick, I was on my way to being a size 8.  But the conditions didn’t end there.  He asked me what would stop me from achieving my goal.  After some thought, I realized some “stuff” about my Dad might hold me back.  

You know what he made me do then?  Confront my Dad!  He said to me “You have one hour to go write a letter to your Dad and then we are going to mail it.  If you don’t do this, I will not train you!”  

Harsh!  With tears in my eyes, I looked at him and wondered if he was really going to make me do this.  He had his serious, I mean it, look on his face and I knew there was no way out.  I stormed off to my room to write a letter.  

Before my journey of having my ideal body ever began, I had roadblocks put in front of me that I had to overcome.  I had to prove to him and myself that I was absolutely committed to achieving my goal.  I had to do whatever it would take to even take my first steps.  

In the past, when you have said you are going to lose weight, have you committed to it?  I mean really said to yourself that you will DO WHATEVER IT TAKES to create your ideal body?  

If you are like many people out there, you may have taken a “someday… we’ll see…” approach to weight loss.  

“Some day this program may work for me.  Tomorrow, I’ll stop eating the junk food.  Oh, just one more won’t hurt.”

I’ve said all those things as well.  This time though… it was different.  

Are you ready to finally make the commitment to yourself to do whatever it takes to have your ideal you?

Just in the nick of time, I finished the letter to my Dad and we went to send it off.  It was one of the hardest things I had done.  I didn’t know how my Dad would react to the things that I had said to him.  Apparently though, it was time to clear the air.  

We got home, and Hugh put together my program.  He started to show me, and again, tears came to my eyes and I wondered how I was ever going to do the things he wanted me to do.  I clearly remember him showing me how to do the 1-legged squats and I thought I was going to die just watching him!  

I know I screamed at him and said, “NO WAY!”  At that point he sat down and said, “Are you committed to doing this?”

“Yes! Of course I am!”

“Then do it! Stop making up excuses.  I will not do this with you, if that’s the attitude you are going to have!  I will only give you things to do that I know you can do.  Trust me!” he fired back at me.

I had to dig deep inside and shut off all those voices in my head telling me that I couldn’t and start to believe that I can.  

The first time I went to the gym after that, I was excited and a bit nervous about how I was going to do all the things I was supposed to do. I figured that as long as I went and did my best, that was better than doing nothing at all.  

I started slowly and pushed myself to a place just beyond where I was comfortable.  I remember doing my first plank, which is an ab training exercise, and I could only hold it for about 10 seconds.  He wanted me to do it for 1 minute!  So, I just kept coming down and getting back up.  

I also remember asking my friends and random girls in shops, “What size are you?”  I didn’t even know what a size 8 looked like to imagine it!  I was on a journey that felt like I was blind.  I just trusted my partner to help me do what was right for me.  

If you are reading this, it must mean that you are on a journey to create your ideal body as well.  I want you to look inside and do what I did, find the commitment you haven’t found before, when it comes to losing weight.  

Decide TODAY that you are going to move forward, powerfully, in a positive way to create your picture-perfect self.  Remember, you control what happens in your life, so commit to doing what you want.  

In the end, I did reach my goal.  I even did it earlier than expected.  I worked super hard at it!  I went to the gym 4-5 times a week and ate amazingly healthy foods.  I eliminated all processed sugars from my diet.  I was committed and did whatever it took!  

My strength increased and I was able to do the plank for a minute.  I was doing 1-legged squats and even started squatting ON the swiss ball.  Even better, I was LOVING all of it!  I felt amazing and looked amazing!

Oh yeah… and a week after sending the letter to my Dad, he called me and apologized!  I was shocked!  Our relationship has gotten even better since then.

Are you ready to create amazing results in your life?  Are you 100% committed to achieving your ideal dress size?  If so, then DO SOMETHING about it!  

Remember how I spoke about trusting my partner as I didn’t know where I was going at the time?  If you don’t know what you are doing and taking stabs in the dark about your weight loss, then ask for help!  

We have been there and done this before.  Not only am I my own success story, we have helped others do the same.  Trust us, as our mission is to help you create your ideal body as well.  We are with you to help you succeed!
 
Pick up the phone now and call 02 8006 1256 to let us help you achieve your ideal body!

By the way… If you want to see where I am at today, only a couple years later… check out YouTube and search for “car lifting wife”.  You will see my massive strength now and I’m still living with my ideal body!

The Biggest Weight Loss Mistakes

Hugh Norley - Monday, March 02, 2009
So, you woke up and looked at yourself in the mirror and thought to yourself… that’s it.  I have had enough!  I am going to lose weight.  

Or was it that you went to put your pants on today and you struggled to zip them up? Did you have to pull the trick where you lay down on your bed so that you are flatter to get them to zip up?

Whatever the case… here you are on your journey to losing weight.  How many times have you done this before?  

The Biggest Mistake Women Make When Losing Weight is…

You decide to lose weight and go on some crash diet… Have you tried the pills and gotten the jitters yet?  What about the frozen meals?  Have you counted your points with weight watchers?  Or maybe you ate all protein with the Atkins diet.  You may have even succeeded with some of them, obviously only to put the weight back on or you wouldn’t be here.

Would You Like to Finally Break Out Of The YO-YO Diet?

Have you finally had enough?  Or is this just like every other time, where you start to make some progress and go right back to your old habits as soon as you lose the weight.  
It’s like this… Eat, eat, eat… Not enough exercise… Look in the mirror, think to yourself “OH NO!  I have done it again! When did it happen?  When did I put all the weight back on?  It just appeared out of nowhere and now my clothes don’t fit anymore!  It couldn’t be my fault…  I still eat SOME of the things I’m supposed to.  Oh yeah… and I’m still walking ONCE a week.  I swear it’s my metabolism.  I have this thyroid problem and it’s this genetic thing… Or I just got so busy and I don’t have the time.”  

What is your excuse?

Don’t worry!  There is an answer!   

I am a coach specializing in weight loss for women.  I am always amazed at the amount of excuses that people can come up with as to why they can’t lose weight.

Stop lying to yourself.  

The BIGGEST MISTAKE that you make in losing weight is to not COMMIT to your goal.

So something today triggered you to come and find this article and because you have that must mean that you are on another journey to losing weight.  

Are you 100% committed?

PROVE IT TO ME!  

If you are 100% committed to achieving your IDEAL body, then you will do whatever it takes to get there.  Right?  Because you deserve it, don’t you?

It’s about time that you put yourself first and take care of you!  You have waited long enough!

So what do you have to do to take the next step in your journey towards your ideal you?  

Do you have to look for yet another diet?  You may succeed over the short term, but what happens when you stop doing all the tedious tasks they have you doing? Did you put the weight back on?  Isn’t it time to face the facts and do something about your lifestyle?

If you choose to FINALLY recognize that it’s time to make a few adjustments to your life so that you can maintain your health and weight loss, then you are exactly in the right place. 


At Targeted Fat Loss, our passion is to help you get your ideal body!  We help you breakthrough all the chatter in your head that keeps you from doing what you want.  

You know when it starts to tell you “that one square of chocolate won’t hurt”, and then 250 grams of chocolate later you’re done (and sick).  OR… I REALLY don’t have time to workout today.  I have to pick up the kids, get the food, work for 6 hours on the accounting, help the kids with their school work, clean the house etc, etc… Oh yeah.. and doesn’t housework count as exercise?

We also teach you ways to eat food that you love in proportions that are good for YOU so that you can maintain your weight loss for a LIFETIME!  Isn’t that what you really want?  
 
I have tried many of the diets out there, did the yo-yo thing and FINALLY found something that works for me.  I can easily maintain this lifestyle and it doesn’t interfere with my daily life by taking up any extra time… I know I am onto something and I am VERY EXCITED!

So, back to getting committed…  

I don’t work with anyone who doesn’t write 3 pages of how their life will be once they have lost the weight.  They must also tell their family and friends that this is their commitment.  A very important part of that is setting boundaries, especially with the family so that you have their support.  (I will write more about that in another article, so stay posted for that).  

If there are certain foods in your house that you know are your “binge” foods or you just don’t ever want to stay away from them, GET RID OF THEM!  

You absolutely MUST pick a form of exercise that you LOVE!  This is MASSIVE!  When you love exercising, you will MAKE TIME TO DO IT.  So if you want to dance, go sign up for dance lessons, if you want to go to the gym, go get your membership.  

Stop sitting on the couch and making excuses as to why you are getting fatter!

Start making up reasons to get thinner!

When you realize now that there are amazing strategies that you can put into place to help you succeed in losing weight and keeping it off, there is nothing else to do, but to call me now so that you can create your ideal body and keep it looking that way!  

We will get your mind in the right place so that it supports you AND we will teach you health strategies to implement into your lives that you can easily do everyday!  

The time is now!  Are you committed?  If so… then pick up the phone now and call 02 8006 1256 for your FREE 15 minute consultation.

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